THERAPY TIMELINE
Category: Autre
mise à jour avec succès: 22 févr. 2024
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Created byDanica Sapit
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Kuya puts himself in psychiatric careDobby tries to commit suicide and leaves a note, breaking down outside of the houseKuya is born in the US (Edison) as a colic baby.Dobby is born in the US (jersey city)I am born (prematurely) in US (Edison)Mom is born in ManilaDad is born in ?, PhilippinesI am raped by KI graduate HS (McNair Academic, Jersey City)Kuya graduates HS (McNair Academic, Jersey City)I graduate from OLMKuya graduates from OLMDobby graduates from OLMMom and Dad get marriedMom moves for the first time on her own to Singapore for her first job. She meets Dad at work.Dad meets mom at work.Dad's dad dies. Dad goes into a depression, and his mom (Lola) distances him from their family to keep the church reputation. He wants to move out of the Philippines.Dad asks Mom to marry him "for the green card." Both families disapprove.I overhear cousins making fun of Kuya. I get angry at them. I tell Kuya, and Kuya cries. My mom tells me I should never say things like that again.Kuya starts as a Food Science major at Rutgers UniversityI start as an engineering major (originally BioMed) at Rutgers UniversityKuya calls the police when his friend tells him she wants to commit suicide. She is furious at him, and Kuya becomes despondent/guilty.I tell classmate/acquaintance K that I was just broken up with. K then forces a kiss onto me. I run away, but he takes my bag. I tell myself that I have to be in a relationship now.I discover porn for the first time -- lesbian porn. I realize I at least like girls. Mom and dad have to continuously clear my history for me, bc there is 1 computer.I keep telling the school my favorite color is rainbow. I get my worksheets on that marked incorrect.I have a "dream job" and "role model" assignment. Mom edits my answers from "artist" to "nurse" and "role model" of ? to herself.Kuya is made racially fun of at the first Renaissance (suburban) fair we go to. I glare and bark at the kids. It is the first time we were in an environment in which we were the actual minority.Dobby starts to make crafts and asks me for help, as at this point I am known as the family artist.I notice that my assigned "female engineer" mentor starts hanging out with me and flirting with me.I and mom fightI attend an "engineering" night for Rutgers. I meet my future-mentor and future-gf for the first time, staying in her room.Lola has a heart attackI meet Javad. I am taken by his kindness and our rapport. He is best friends with my mentor.I tell Javad I want to be "ambiguous" or something between genders.I write the characteristics of "the husband i have to be assigned when i grow up"I notice Kuya starts getting uncomfortable with my saying she/her and I start to ask if he'd rather be called a he during visits.Kuya tells me he is mad I called his purse a "woman's purse", when the family visits me after my internshipDobby wants to pull out of schoolDobby tells me, oh i really do like girlsMom learns the term "depression" and "mental illness" from dobby's incident and thinks it's the first time the family has had one.Tito James (Dad's best friend) follows suit to move to the US with himKuya comes out to me as transKuya comes out to family as transDobby casually drops to me that they are nonbinary after ku comes outI tell guidance counselor I will go into engineering instead of art/writing. They laugh given my math grades in comparisonDobby shows off a painting I made with their help to an online friend. Friend is surprised and then says oh wait, you didn't make it. Of course you didn't it's too good.Mom starts calling "dobby" the good one and dobby continues to use it even past 2013Kuya gets into McNair. Mom cries tears of joyI get into McNair. Mom says of course and we dont talk about it.Dae wins a math award in OLMI break down from an anorexia episode. My mom gives me a weight and eating disorder pamphlet. Siblings and friends ask, when is she gonna get over it?I burst out crying and hide when I give my bday card to my visiting tita. Just the possibility of her not liking it sends me.I attempt suicide againI do an unofficial gender nonbinary survey project in hsI create a transgender art piece for an art show that I joined in secret in collegePériodes
Mom lives in Manila, Philippines as the youngest of 4Dad lives in ?, Philippines, as the oldest of 4I am in a relationship with a boy named Nishant. He breaks up with me due to his arranged marriage and attending different schools.Dad's mom (Lola) comes to take care of us when both our parents are at workKuya and I work on original stories and comics togetherI start on message boards as well. I eventually start to try to target sexual predators by using a fake identity.I became online famous as a digital artist.kuya became online famous as a fanfic and original story writerdobby also holds an online art accountI take an internship at a top cancer research center, living with an aunt in Houston, TXI take my first job at a science centerI develop an eating disorder and attempt suicide secretly, regularly, by running away from home.Kuya is in an online, long-distance relationship w someone he meets on the boards. He uses my camera to take private photos but forgets to delete them. He also starts occasionally using 'he' in anonymous boards to try it out.Dobby starts to get into online message boards and (I believe) begins a tumultuous relationshipi have my hard crush on a girl at school, who led the art show i participated inKuya started to not wear his shirt around the house, and mom would keep calling him a neanderthal and shameful due to his "female-presenting" body being exposedI have friends from OLM who also start coming over to the house to be babysat alongside us by my Loladad starts skipping class and joins a Filipino gangdad goes to college and masters for mechanical engineering, thinking he will become a mechanicmom goes to college for math and computer scienceI was considered extremely shy as a child in school. Had speech problems, sensitivity, attention problems, social problems. Also often mistaken as "Chinese" and "not an actual part of my family". However, known as a silently good artist and a "good student / rule follower"Kuya goes to school and is known as an intelligent student, a talented writer, and a good singer.Dobby enters school and is known as a popular, math-gifted studentI was often mistaken as a young boy as a child, and my parents would sometimes call me "Nico" and dress me in boys' clothingI am called "my mom's twin" in looksI suffer from asthmaI have trouble in my computer science classes, so I stick with K
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